Friday, September 11, 2009
Just For Dad: Must See Robot Movies
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Bay Area Outings: South Park Green
Located between 2nd and 3rd streets just south of Bryant, South Park is a welcome quiet spot in the busy city and an oasis of green in SOMA. It's easy to forget you are in the midst of one of the more commercial neighborhoods in San Francisco.
There are several good cafes and full restaurants in the ring of businesses around the park as well as the surprisingly kid friendly 21st Amendment right over on 2nd street. It's a perfect place for dad to feel at home and still get the kids something decent to eat after romping in the park. (Don't miss the weekend only breakfast pizza.)
Hint for dad: Za Za nail salon is just up on 2nd St. As well. A perfect place to give the lady in your life a mani-pedi break while you take the kids to the park. She can also shop at small stores nearby and join you for brunch, lunch or dinner.
The Good Stuff:
It's a really well done small park that is rarely overrun with bigger kids.
There is some shopping nearby.
There is a wide array of good food nearby.
The Bad Stuff:
Sometimes there are a few vagrants in the park but SFPD tends to keep them out.
Butler And Chef located right in the circle has great food but is not the most kid friendly. They actually have a "no stroller policy".
It's in an odd spot if you aren't already in SOMA for another reason.
South Park Wiki
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Kitchen Skills: One Minute Eggs!
You'll need a microwave, an egg and a microwave safe mug or bowl. A typical coffee mug works well. It also helps to have a small amount of butter, oil or cooking spray to help prevent the egg from sticking but it's not essential.
While you only need an egg, you might want to add cheese and something green and leafy. Eggs area great vehicle for getting little ones to eat things like spinach, swiss chard or dandelion greens.
First: Use your oil, butter or cooking spray to very lightly coat the inside of the mug.
Next: Crack your egg into the mug and add any cheese, greens, tomatoes or other stuff you might want.
Then: This is very important, mix the egg well. You can beat it with a fork or simply mix it up thoroughly with a spoon, chopstick or whatever is handy. If you don't your egg will likely explode and spatter itself all over your microwave!
Finally: Place the mug in the microwave and set it for a minute. You may need to adjust for your particular microwave. If the egg comes out soupy try putting it back in for another 15 seconds and if it comes out looking like a kitchen sponge try subtracting 15. Adding ingredients usually requires more cooking time. An extra egg or a particularly large one will almost certainly take longer.
As with all microwave foods, there may be hot spots in the eggs. Make sure you chop them up before giving them to your child and give them a moment to cool to a safe temperature.
You can also read this article over at Examiner.com!
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Just For Dad: Wet VS Dry Shaving
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Tools Of The Trade: The Mommy Hook
I'm a climber, not a great one but I have some really great stuff that gets used on and off climbing routes. So, this item predictably caught my eye. While the name is kind of annoying I have to say it's a handy thing to have in my daddy tool kit. It's useful for carrying bags of groceries home, looping jackets and things through and occasionally, like standard carabiners, attaching things to the stroller or diaper bag. The foam section really does make for a nice handle. Far more comfortable way to carry plastic grocery bags weather your walk is two blocks or twenty.
While it isn't rated for real "work" it's an honest improvement over what you might be tempted to use from your normal non-baby related life. The closest you'll get is going to be around $20 versus the very reasonable $8 for the Mommy Hook. So, if you can get past the name and the inevitable ribbing your likely to get from your friends you can get a Mommy Hook at any number of locations most notably Babies R Us, Toys R Us and Bed Bath and Beyond. As a bonus it will likely even perform better in this instance than your manly carabiner would have.
The website is just a simple splash page but the product isn't all that complicated...
http://www.themommyhook.com/
...Not a bad stocking stuffer.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Date Night: Tango
Monday, July 20, 2009
Bay Area Outings: Classic Zoo Trip
The zoo is a time honored outing that most parents will either enjoy or endure a number of times. San Francisco is lucky to have a really good zoo. It's well laid out and manageable as either a family trip or a solo adventure. Since the exhibits were designed with kids in mind there are relatively few hazards and several areas where toddlers can stretch their legs given some supervision.
San Francisco Zoo
The zoo overall is a nice one but little folks will especially like the ample petting zoo and the playground. So, plan on some extra play time and maybe not seeing the entire zoo in one visit. It's a very spread out facility with a lot to see. Also plan on the kid(s) getting dirty.
We like the insect zoo and be sure to visit the birds of prey. One of the only places you can get close to large birds like owls, hawks and falcons. Very cool indeed.
The "Little Puffer" train is a lot of fun when it's running.
Bea loves the petting zoo goats but mind the horns. The goats tend to whip their heads around a bit and the horns are right about eye level for a toddler.
We also pack a kite and a blanket/towel for the beach after the zoo. The water is cold but kids will enjoy playing in the sand.
The Good Stuff:
Very kid friendly.
Easily accessible by public transit. Just take the Muni L and walk a couple blocks right to the zoo.
San Francisco residents get a discount but bring "proof" of residency. Get an additional dollar off with a Muni receipt. As low as $11 instead of the full price $15 admission.
It's a classic, good for the entire family or just dad and the little one(s).
Fun diner style places to eat near the zoo and close proximity to the beach if you want to make a day of it.
The Bad Stuff:
The food is mostly processed greasy stuff. OK quality but it's mainly pizza, burgers, breaded things and it's expensive. Maybe pack a lunch. (The food is fine for adults.)
Not a lot of shade. Plan on hats and sunscreen.
It can be both windy and cold. The zoo is right next to the ocean.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Beyond the Bay: Humboldt Redwoods State Park
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Green Thumb: Garlic
One of the most rewarding things a person can do is grow something. Our family always had some sort of garden growing up and my own family has one now even living in an urban apartment. It doesn't take as much space as you might think to put some great things on your table. It also allows the little ones to better understand where food comes from. We'll start with a very simple one and expand in future Green Thumb posts. As children grow older they can take a bigger role in planting, caring for and harvesting. It's a fantastic way to get kids outside and let them learn basic responsibility in a way that directly rewards them as well as the rest of the family. While results aren't instant they're fast enough to be relevant in kid time.
There are countless gardening resources on the web if you want to really get into it. For now I'll suggest a few simple things that can be grown on a window sill or in a small sunny spot anywhere. Even picky eaters will sometimes eat things they have grown or prepared. We are admittedly a family of foodies so it's important to us that Bea not end up a picky eater. To encourage her to eat a variety of things we simply keep her diet varied and as fresh as possible. Bea loves fresh tomatoes, strawberries and herbs with her pasta but one of our family favorites is green garlic. It has to be one of the most rewarding and easiest plants we have ever grown.
It's wonderful stuff if you have never tried it. Simply the greens rather than the bulb of the plant, it grows easily and quickly making it ideal for children. It's also so inexpensive as to be a risk free item even for those who think they can't grow anything. You can!
All you have to do is take a basic grocery store bulb of garlic and pull it apart into separate cloves just like you would to cook with it. I gently peel the dried outer layer from the cloves so they can sprout more easily and plant them in any handy flower pot, mug or empty soup can that might be laying around. You'll see sprouts within a few days and have usable green garlic in a week or two.
This can also make an entertaining center piece on your dinner table that adults and children alike will enjoy taking greens from to put right on their plates. A decorative planter from Pottery Barn and a pair of scissors for snipping off greens can not only add flavor to your meal but your dinner conversation as well. (It's sure to impress the ladies in your life if nothing else.)
Cooking with green garlic is great. It lacks the bite and harshness sometimes associated with the bulbs and won't go bitter in a dish even if added at the beginning. using it is more akin to green onions than garlic. This also makes it attractive for people who may not normally be garlic fans. So, give it a shot.
We'll explore more Green Thumb projects in upcoming posts but for now you've got a great project that can be started on your next trip to the grocery. Grab an extra bulb of garlic and plant it.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Activity: Go Fly A Kite!
Kites are a kid classic that most will take at least a passing interest in at some point. They are easily built from scratch and you can buy an almost endless array of colors, styles and shapes of kites.
Favorite kite spots in San Francisco:
Chrissy Field and Ocean Beach
Favorite kit shop not in San Francisco:
KaleidoKites in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. The Eureka Springs annual kite festival is fantastic if you happen to be in the neighborhood. Maybe even worth planning a trip for next year. It will be the 20th annual kite festival.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Beyond The Bay: Air Travel Tips
Bea and I once again set off for an air travel adventure. This time to spend 4th of July in Indiana. This was the third (or fourth) airplane trip we had taken together. A lot faster than our train trips but a bit more difficult as well.
Another thing I do is take off my belt, jewelry, watch and anything else that will set off a metal detector and put it safely in the diaper bag and try to wear slip on shoes. Taking care of that ahead of time helps things go smoothly and lessens the risk that someone will walk off with something valuable (As happened to me at O'Hare). It's easy to grab things out of a bins and trays, especially when you are distracted by your child. Don't risk it.
It's not for everyone but one of the things I do is head directly for the rear of the plane. Sometimes the seats don't recline but you won't have anyone behind you, you're next to the bathroom if you are potty training and most often that's where crackers, water and juice are allowing you to aquire them much faster than if you were in a random location elsewhere in the aircraft.
I've had good service traveling with Bea on Southwest and Frontier but I'll probably never fly United again.
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Back From Holiday
Traveling alone with your child can be challenging and air travel is no exception. So, we've got an air travel article coming up to share some of what we have learned on our travels and lots of other great stuff too. We'll be posting soon!
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Bay Area Outings: Lafayette Park
Set in the pleasant Pacific Heights neighborhood sits the large and somewhat underused historic Lafayette Park. A bit of a hike up the hill but very rewarding for a range of age groups.
The playground equipment is well maintained and interesting enough to keep kids engaged. It is also fenced in with a short chain link enclosure that will keep those who might otherwise stray safely in the play area.
A bonus is a second area that is a fenced in grassy space perfect for those too young for the sand and climbing friendly playground area. There are nice restrooms(for a park), ample space for a picnic and both shade and sun. Dogs are not allowed in the play spaces helping them remain clean and relatively safe for children who are not walking or still falling down a lot.
It's one of our favorites.
The Good Stuff:
Large, safe, clean play and picnic areas next to restroom facilities.
Located near great places to eat just down the hill in the Filmore.
Easily accessible from the 1 and 12 bus routes.
Great view in a beautiful neighborhood.
The Bad Stuff:
Located at the top of a hill and a little rough, not bad, with a stroller. Kids big enough to walk on their own will have no trouble at all.
Lafayette Park history and directions.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Bay Area Outings: Bea's 1st Giants Game
One of the best things about being a dad is taking baby on outings. Just because you have a little one doesn't mean you need to stop getting out and about. There are plenty of things that are at least relatively kid friendly and still fun for big people too.
One recent adventure was taking Bea to her first Giants game. It was a rousing success and Bea had a great time. We went to an evening game down at AT&T Park and since she's still under two she came along for free. The whole family went on this one and the neighbors came along with their little one too. Bea did great at eighteen months. The game was mesmerizing for her and we managed to find OK things for her to eat in addition to the snacks we brought with us. The other little one that came along was a mere six months old. She snuggled with mom and dad for most of the game and didn't seem to mind what noise and commotion there was.
The staff gets a big pat on the back too. They were not only welcoming with our children they seemed genuinely excited to see little sports fans in attendance. The crowd was also more than sensitive to our fragile companions.
It was a great time.
The good stuff:
Kids seem to love the active setting and seeing something completely new to them.
They get a fun certificate for attending their first baseball game.
The food is livable for all but the most selective parents. AT&T Park has a lot of food options.
Even a fairly cranky child won't make enough noise and commotion to disturb people at a ball game.
Even if you aren't a sports guy, live ball games are a lot of fun.
The bad stuff:
Some little ones might not like the crowds.
While they are pretty tame, some parents may not like crowds of sports fans around their kids.
There is drinking at the park. So, if you are sensitive about people imbibing in front of your little one maybe think twice. Though, it is not a bar like atmosphere in any way.
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Tools Of The Trade: Diaper Bag
Diaper bags are one of those items everyone needs to have and most are made with women in mind. There are some more masculine models out there but they still sort of look like a "diaper bag" maybe just made with a dad in mind. There may be a mental component to designing bags with the thought of them being a baby item in mind even though the diaper bag is an accessory for parents and babies neither care nor are really aware of what they look like. So, we found a different solution that not only fits the bill as a top notch diaper bag but will live on as a favorite after the diapers are long gone.
We use a Chrome Industries messenger bag. It looks great, outperforms most diaper bags and is designed with urban bicycle messengers in mind. That means they are durable, functional and adhere to at least a basic level of stylishness.
The only thing they lack is a changing pad but there is ample room for one. The best features, as far as using it for a diaper bag are concerned, are probably the "truck tarp" liner that cleans up with a sponge and the seatbelt-buckle on the strap that allows you to take the bag off while still holding your little one. Bonus, the waterproof liner makes the inside of the storm flap usable as a changing pad if you elect not to carry a separate one. It cleans well with diaper wipes.
I've had two bags from Chrome; one before baby and one for use as a diaper bag. The initial bag has survived several years of lugging around camera gear, climbing equipment, books and plenty of rough travel. The diaper bag is beginning it's second year with no signs of wearing out and mommy likes it too.
While it won't satisfy the Vera Bradley crowd it will keep baby's essentials dry in a downpour and save your back along with your identity as a man. Well worth the investment.
From their website:
"Built to last a lifetime: Guaranteed Our messenger bags are constructed here in the USA with the most rugged assembly of industrial materials and hardware available: military spec. seam binding, 1,000 denier Cordura outer shell, 18oz. weatherproof truck tarp inner liner, five bar seatbelt webbing, and nylon 69 thread.
� Functional Our messenger bags are designed with an anatomically correct EVA foam padded shoulder strap and cross chest load stabilizer. Our signature quick release seat-buckle closure allows for on-the-fly one-handed tightening and loosening of the shoulder strap, which features a Velcro accessory mounting strap.
� Weatherproof It's like a bag within a bag. The independently suspended weatherproof liner freely floats within the outershell, eliminating seams exposed to the outside elements. "
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Welcome
Welcome!
This is a blog headed up by a genuine San Francisco Bay Area stay at home dad. We'll explore the bay area and beyond, review cool or not so cool places to go and things to do, visit restaurants and review products.
I'm JT and I am currently the primary caregiver of Bea, a whily 18 month old girl born and in the process of being raised right here in San Francisco.
A little pertinent background:
We are a family of three. Mommy, Daddy and Bea. We live in the heart of San Francisco near Grace Cathedral in a small urban apartment. We walk all over the city and beyond using our trusty Bob stroller and Kelty backpack carrier. We do not own a car but rent them on occasion for road trips. Bea and I travel by plane some but as a family we almost always go by car or train. You'll be getting the lowdown on that stuff too. I, JT, am home with Bea but am also a freelance photographer and writer as well as being a grad student working on my MFA.
This blog came about because I feel like there are relatively few resources specifically targeted at dads and even less for dads who are primary caregivers. Times they are a changing and dads have different needs as well as demands both from society and their families.
So, welcome again and feel free to write and let us know if there are places we should see, things we ought to check out or even questions you might want us to explore.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Pre-Launch Greetings!
this is the official first post of the Bay Area Dad blog!
More of a hello and and introduction than an action packed, informative post, we wanted to make sure we had something on the web before taking off on yet another adventure (a solo airplane trip with just Dad and Miss Bea).
We have a million and one things planned to explore and share. We're already visiting fun places, food places, parks and adventure spots in and around the Bay area as well as beyond. We'll have a great review of the Redwoods up north and the latest about TSA antics and traveling to the Midwest soon. We're also writing up fun activities, great(and maybe not so great) products for both baby and dad.
This blog is written primarily by and for stay at home dad's. Sort of the guys perspective on at least one version of modern parenting that doesn't quite get the amount of press, attention and sometimes credit we think it deserves.
...that's all to follow soon and we're happy you've found us in time for the launch of our latest endeavor.
We have so much planned and hope to have lots of great things on offer as we find sponsors and contributors in the coming months!